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Birth and Pregnancy Affirmations

I love affirmations! I utilized them daily during my second pregnancy as I had signs of getting pre-eclampsia again. I needed my thoughts to remain positive. In the end, I avoided getting pre-e and had a perfect pregnancy and beautiful birth.
The Sacred Pregnancy book taught me about mantras and affirmations. I would hold my belly daily and repeat that I was healthy and my baby was safe and strong. I told my son that we were a team and would work together during his birth. I said those affirmations aloud several times a day on the recommendation of my doulas and Naturopath.I used affirmations and visualization during my labor. I imagined the women across the world who were giving birth at the same time as me. I pictured my surges as waves that I would ride out one by one. I repeated in my head that each surge would bring me closer to my baby. I also repeated relax, release and open to myself when I was laboring at home before my doulas arrived. Another tool was to tell myself that I loved labor. This was a method that Anni Daulter wrote about in the Sacred Pregnancy book. It worked to view labor as a positive thing by embracing each contraction rather than to fear them. I believe that is why that birth was so quick and easy.

The mind is a powerful thing! As a birth doula, I encourage my client to get out of their heads and surrender to birth. I like to give out the awesome magnets that Tracey Rose of www.hypnobirthingrocks.com makes to my Sacred Pregnancy students as a reminder to reflect whenever they open their refrigerator.

Karlye’s HypnoBirthing students use affirmations in class as well as visualization.

Some of my favorite affirmations for birth are:
• I trust my body to birth my baby.
• Relax, breathe, open!
• I am powerful.
• I am strong.
• Everything is going perfectly.
• There will be no complications.
• My baby is safe.
• My baby will be born at the perfect time.
• My body will open like a rose!

We will be featuring Affirmation Tuesday on our Gold Coast Doulas Facebook page with a new Affirmation Meme each week. We hope you enjoy them!

 

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We are Your Doulas!

We are your doulas!

At Gold Coast we pride ourselves on our superior service and professionalism. We aim to be your one stop shop for all things pertaining to pregnancy, birth and the postpartum time.

Looking for childbirth classes? We’ve got you covered with HypnoBirthing classes and will soon be releasing another option for Childbirth Classes.

Looking for a doula to support you during bedrest or other medical situations? Our Bedrest Doulas have got you covered in the home or hospital.

Interested in a birth doula? We have Certified and Pre-Certified partnered doulas who would love to work with you. Gold Coast Doulas support births in the home, birth center or hospitals. Our fully insured doulas attend births in the following hospitals: Gerber, Zeeland Hospital, Hackley Hospital, Metro Health Hospital, Mercy Health Saint Mary’s Campus, Spectrum Health Butterworth Hospital, Holland Hospital and North Ottawa Community Hospital.

Do you need daytime postpartum care for you new baby and yourself? Our trained and certified postpartum doulas will care for your baby while you take a shower, run errands for you, do light housekeeping, light meal preparation, will listen to your birth story and to you to support you emotionally, they will play with your toddler and support you with breastfeeding or bottle feeding.

Are you sleep deprived? Our overnight postpartum doulas will give you the rest you need. Gold Coast Doulas love to bring breastfed babies to you when it is time to nurse and then take care of burping, changing and getting your baby back to sleep. If you bottle feed or pump our doulas will take care of everything so you can sleep through the night. Even one good night of sleep can make a difference.

Do you need support with twins or multiples? Our postpartum doulas are eager to help!

How can we best support you? Call us today!
We serve all of Greater Grand Rapids and West Michigan’s Gold Coast including: Saugatuck/Douglas, Holland/Zeeland, Grand Haven/Spring Lake, Muskegon, Fremont, Cedar Springs and surrounding areas

 

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12 Things To Do When You Are Overdue

It can be a struggle to get through the in-between time. Here are some things that West Michigan women can do in the final days of pregnancy. Please note–I did not contact businesses listed below in advance of this post.  Here are 12 Things To Do When You Are Overdue:
1) Grab a smoothie or a fresh juice from SIP Organic Juice Bar  and catch up with a friend. There will never be enough time for adult talk after the baby comes.
2) Go for a swim in East Grand Rapids at the Wealthy Elementary. The water is warm and you can float and get a bit of exercise. There is even a lift to lower you in the pool if you need it.
3) Go for a walk at the Frederik Meijer Gardens. Take some time to relax and literally smell the roses.

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4) Pick up a journal at Schuler Books and Music in Grand Rapids. You can grab lunch in the cafe and reflect on your pregnancy

5) Get an adjustment at Thrive  or Back To Health Chiropractic.
6) Enjoy a pedicure at Vasaio Life Spa so your feet look great during the birth. They use Zoya natural nail polish so you can avoid chemicals.
7) Attend a free La Leche League meeting to be around other mothers and hear about their breastfeeding journeys.
8) Get a massage somewhere that allows you to lay on your belly. Salus has massage tables with cutouts for the belly
9)  Pop in for a prenatal yoga session at On The Path Yoga or Armentality.
10)  Enjoy date night even if it is just watching a movie at home and eating takeout from Righteous Cuisine.
11) Head out to Lake Michigan to watch the waves and visualize them as surges during your labor.12) Get some treats at Ryke’s in Muskegon!What did you do during your final days of pregnancy?

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Is Your Pregnancy Missing Craniosacral Therapy

Gold Coast Doulas asked Kelly Marie O’Brien Pahman to guest blog on the topic of craniosacral therapy. Kelly opened St. Brigid’s Holistic Labor Care in 2009 where she works as a Holistic Doula and in 2014 she added St. Brigid’s Craniosacral Center in order to support clients and their families with Craniosacral therapy. She has enjoyed working on everything from chronic pain , head trauma to the childbearing year. She lives in Grand Rapids MI with her brilliant and kind husband and their 4 year old son.

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Several years ago I was pregnant with my son, I was also a doula and had come into a string of exceptionally long labors. I had five births in a row that took days. I found my skills were limited… we had “saved” them from c-sections but this left me shaken. Of the 40 or so births I had attended at the time this felt significant and lead to a turning point in my practice. I went into maternity leave ready to research and find a way to shorten long labors. In my research I found tons on optimal fetal positioning and chiropractic but was specifically drawn to craniosacral therapy. I was eager to learn a gentle and effective method of bodywork that powerfully impacted the childbearing year and beyond. It was then that I began to pursue training with the upledger institute and began seeing the valuable impact it had on the health of women in conception, pregnancy, birth and beyond.

Craniosacral Therapy (CST) is a gentle, effective and relaxing therapy. CST is a modality that uses light touch to aid in tissue release and enable the body to come into balance, allowing women and their babies to experience a healthier and more comfortable pregnancy. A session is very much like a massage session but much more gentle and you are fully clothed. Kate McKinnon gives a wonderful description in her video, (Go ahead give it a gander)!

I was excited to incorporate this new tool in my practice. One client in particular, Heather, was on her third pregnancy and suffered pretty severe pubic pain. As a doula pubic pain was always a mystery and in my extensive toolbox I came up at a loss. You can imagine how thrilled I was when after one session I received this text from Heather:

“Still feeling amazing today after the CST! Still standing straight, no issues with hips or pubic bone. My mom even commented that I looked taller and was standing the best she has seen in a long time. I even feel more mentally and emotionally balanced.”

I also noticed shorter labors and other birth workers began sending me their clients in hopes that their breech babies would turn (and they did!).

So how does it work?

During pregnancy CST can bring relief to a myriad of issues for several reasons!

Because of its ability to help your body release tensions and imbalances it invites your body to be in alignment which enables optimal fetal positioning and can alleviate painful pregnancy complications such as migraines, severe pubic pain, low back pain and sciatic pain.

Craniosacral therapy also balances the anatomic nervous system (the part of us that regulates our very basic functions) which causes it to be exceptionally beneficial for anyone dealing with stress, high blood pressure, liver or kidney concerns, nausea or fatigue in pregnancy. I have worked on moms with HELLP syndrome and they have found significant relief. One mother mentioned she didn’t recognize how stressed she was until she became so calm and she likened it to a ‘yoga massage’. All this from a short 20 minute session! My personal experience has been that CST can help stabilize levels in HELLP and prolong the pregnancy to a healthier and more viable place for both the mother and the baby.

Labor and delivery

– What I personally notice in my clients who have received CST is a change in labor pattern, contractions seem to be shorter yet more effective. It is also noted (in Upledger’s handout concerning pregnancy and cst) that while shorter labors are a common benefit of CST it isn’t necessarily the goal. It may be made clear to both the mother and the therapist that a cesarean delivery may be what’s best in that circumstance.

Receiving Care

While it would be ideal to receive treatment throughout your entire pregnancy, many women find exceptional benefit from even one treatment finding a great provider and discussing your goals will help you discern what frequency of visits you desire. You can find a care provider near you by checking out the Upledger website. It would be ideal to find someone who specializes and has training in supporting families during the childbearing year, the level of training a practitioner has received is listed on the Upledger site. If you find someone who offers craniosacral therapy in your area be sure to ask them how they received their training and what their experience is, skillset can vary greatly between providers so make sure you find a credible one who is right for you!

There are virtually no negative side effects and because the therapy is so gentle, the session so enjoyable, and the benefits are so great there is no reason not to set up an appointment today.

 

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9-Pose Pregnancy Yoga Sequence

9-Pose Pregnancy Yoga Sequence

by Deb Weiss-Gelmi, founder of Sing Song Yoga® for kids.

Pregnancy is an exciting and sometimes intimidating time of a woman’s life.  There is endless information available for newly pregnant woman that it can be overwhelming trying to decide what is best for you.

As a mom of three kids, a yoga instructor and one who did everything in my power to enjoy healthy pregnancies and natural births, I will share a simple yoga sequence ideal for the healthy pregnant mom.

Below are some of the poses I did nearly every day of my pregnancy with twins.  Even though I had already been doing yoga for 10 years, I took it more seriously during these 9 months than I ever had before. I knew that yoga would improve my chances of having a smooth healthy pregnancy and delivery. And with my daily practice I felt better able to adjust to my drastically changing body as well as remain calm and positive in each moment, and about my upcoming delivery. I carried my twins full term and had a natural delivery.

This sequence will run about 30 minutes. If you have any questions please connect with me through my website.

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Reclined Bound Angle Pose — Supta Baddha Konasana (5 minutes)

  • Sit with soles of feet together with your knees out to the side just in front of the bolster (or folded blankets) with a blanket for a pillow.
  • For a deeper sense of relaxation, either belt your legs as in the photo or rest your toes against a wall.
  • With the support of your arms and elbows, begin to lean back while lifting your ribs up and place them down on the bolster. Support your head with the extra blanket.
  • Prop your knees with blankets as in picture if they’re off the floor.
  • Shoulders are turned under slightly with palms of your hands facing the ceiling.
  • Begin to let go of tension throughout your body and relax in this lovely supported pose for about five minutes or until you would like to come out.
  • To come out use your hands to support bringing your knees together. Remove belts. Role to your side while allowing your head to gently settle on the floor. Lie on your side for a few moments. Use both arms to push yourself up to seated.

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Mountain w/ Arms up — Urdhva Hastasana

  • Stand upright in Mountain (Tadasana) with feet hip-distance apart.
  • Balance weight equally in your feet, firm your knees and thighs while gently lifting your abdomen in and upward.
  • Lift your sternum and take your shoulders away from the ears.
  • Stretch your hands downward, palms facing your outer thighs.
  • Stretch your fingers and arms forward in line with your shoulders, then upward toward the ceiling alongside you ears.
  • Breath normally, keep your shoulders away from the ears and hold the pose for 10 to 15 seconds.
  • Maintain the space you have created while you lower your outstretched arms back to your side.

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Triangle — Utthita Trikonasana

  • Stand upright in Mountain (Tadasana) with feet hip-distance apart.
  • Step your feet apart about 3 feet and spread your arms out to the side in line with your shoulders. Palms face the floor.
  • Turn your right leg 90 degrees to the right and your left foot slightly inward.
  • Bend your torso sideways to the right and place your hand on a block or a chair, or hold your shin or ankle.
  • Raise your left arm straight up in line with your shoulder, with palm facing forward.
  • If it’s comfortable, turn your neck and look up at your left thumb.
  • Breathe normally and hold for 20-30 seconds.
  • To come out, press through your outer left heal and lift your torso back to upright. Turn your feet straight ahead and continue the pose doing the same thing on the other side.

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Warrior Two — Virabhadrasana 2

  • Stand upright in Mountain (Tadasana) with feet hip-distance apart.
  • Step your feet apart about 3 feet and spread your arms out to the side in line with your shoulders. Palms face the floor.
  • Turn your right leg 90 degrees to the right and your left foot slightly inward.
  • On an exhalation, bend your right leg. Be sure your knee is directly over your ankle and keep your torso upright – not leaning toward the bent knee.
  • Turn your head to the right and look over your right fingertips.
  • Breathe normally and hold for 10-15 seconds.
  • To come out, straighten your right leg. Turn your feet straight ahead and continue the pose doing the same thing on the other side.

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Wide Leg Forward Bend — Prasarita Padottanasana

  • Stand upright in Mountain (Tadasana) with feet hip-distance apart.
  • Step your feet apart about 3 feet with the outer sides of your feet parallel to each other (might seem a bit pigeon-toed).
  • Distribute your weight evenly throughout your feet. Lift and firm your kneecaps and thighs and gently press your thighs back.
  • Move your tailbone down and in.
  • Gently lift your abdomen and sternum while taking your shoulders away from your ears.
  • Put your hands on your hips, thumbs point toward the spine, elbows point back, broaden across your chest.
  • Bend forward stretching your sternum away from your firmed thighs, place your hands on blocks on the floor under your shoulders.
  • Take your shoulders back toward your hips.
  • Hold the pose for 30-60 seconds or longer if you feel comfortable. If you tire or lose focus come out earlier.
  • To come out, return your hands to your hips, elbows point toward the ceiling and lift with your chest while lengthening your torso.
  • Step your feet back to hip-distance and stand upright in Mountain.

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Bound Angle — Baddha Konasana (five minutes)

  • Sit upright on narrowly folded blankets (3-4 inches thick) at the wall with your legs outstretched hip-width apart. Be sure your buttocks are higher than your feet.
  • Bend one leg at a time to bring the soles of the feet together with the outer edges of your feet resting on the floor in front of your pelvis.
  • Hold your feet or shins. Lift your sternum while taking your shoulders toward your hips.
  • Relax your groin and inner thighs out toward your knees.
  • Maintain the lifted sternum and shoulder work while relaxing your head, jaw, face, throat and inner thighs. You may place your hands on your thighs.
  • Breathe normally and hold this pose for as long as you feel peaceful in doing so.
  • This, as well as the reclined version, were two of my favorites while I was pregnant with twins. It has the capacity to lessen the strain on abdominal organs and relax your muscles around your baby. Enjoy!

 

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Seated Wide Angle Pose — Upavistha Konasana (five minutes)

  • Sit upright on narrowly folded blankets (3-4 inches think) at the wall with your legs outstretched hip-width.
  • Gradually spread your legs apart increasing the distance as much as you can while maintaining your lifted torso.
  • Keep your toes and kneecaps pointing toward the ceiling.
  • Using the support of your hands behind your thighs, lift sternum and take shoulders toward your hips while maintaining firm knees and thighs.
  • Relax your head, throat, jaw and face.
  • Use the wall for support. Breathe normally and hold this pose for as long as you feel peaceful in doing so. Be sure to come out before you lose focus on maintaining lift.
  • To come out, maintain the lift and bend legs and bring them back to center. Do so without strain to the groins or inner thighs.

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Legs Up the Wall — Viparita Karani (five minutes)

  • Arrange a bolster or folded blankets at the wall (about 10 inches thick – see pic).
  • To get into in the pose sit with your back to the wall with your right hip just at the outer edge of the blanket.
  • Roll your hips onto the bolster focusing first on taking your right shoulder to the floor and keeping your buttocks at the wall. Finally rolling your left shoulder down to the floor and your left hip onto the the bolster.
  • Adjust yourself so that your buttocks and legs are touching the wall and your shoulders are close to the bolster and slightly turned under (in order to raise the sides of the chest up) with your palms facing up.gentle coming out of legs up wall
  • Keep your feet hip-distance apart and legs firmed and straight, extending through your inner heals and balls of the big toes. Move the pinky side of the feet down toward your hips. Relax your whole baby belly allowing your muscles to let go.
  • Relax your entire head and face and remain in this position for as long as it’s comfortable for you – about five minutes and you can work up to ten.
  • To come out, slowly and gently roll to your side leaving the weight of your head on the floor or propped on your arm. Relax for a few moments and then push yourself up with both arms to a seated position.

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Savasana (with support – not flat on your back when pregnant)

  • Use a bolster or arrange folded blankets as seen in this pic – three narrowly folded blankets stacked with a stagger to form ascending steps at the end closest to your body. Have extra blankets around in case you need to support more.
  • Use a folded blanket under the head and a rolled blanket or bolster under your knees. Though it’s not shown in this photo, it is also nice to put blankets under your arms to lift them up a bit.
  • Relax your entire body from your head to your toes – including the lovely space around your baby. Remain in Savasana for as long as it’s comfortable for you – about five to 10 minutes.
  • To come out, bend your legs and arms one at a time. Roll to your side for a moment allowing the weight of your head to be supported by the floor or your arm. Use both arms to push yourself up to a seated position.

Namaste.

References:

G.S. Iyengar, R. Keller, K. Khattab (2010) Iyengar Yoga for Motherhood, New York, NY, Sterling Publishing Co., Inc.

G.S. Iyengar, C. Saudek, (2008) Yoga During Pregnancy.

C. Saudek, (2006) The Yoga Place LLC General Pregnancy Sequence. La Crosse, WI

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Deb Weiss-Gelmi, founder of Sing Song Yoga®, is a yoga instructor for adults and children. Her company has published a kids’ yoga DVD, an iOS App, and a workbook for use in schools. Her passions include yoga, child development, healthy living, family, education and self-growth. She IMG_8661seeks to better her life and the world at large by fully living each of the small moments within them. She believes in the human spirit and expects to draw out the best in each individual, organization, and business with whom she engages. Deb‘s formal education includes a Master’s in Reading and Literacy and a Bachelor’s in Education and Child Development. However, her desire for growth drives her to incessantly gather and absorb information in whatever her current life or business needs implore.

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